Marriage for a lot of people has been a place of pain and regrets, and as you read this, I know so many people that want to COME OUT, and I also know so many who have come out of their Marriages already after all the money spent on Weddings. I am aware though that money is not a big deal to People who like to WASTE IT when THEY THINK THEY HAVE IT even when in actual fact THEY DON’T! So do you still want to get Married? Yes I want you to want to.  You see, IT’S NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE. You were not designed by God as a loner. If you chose to be alone, decide to be alone with someone else, SOMEONE WHO WILL BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOU, because God made you with THE BEST MATERIAL EVER, BY HIS WORD, which is infallible.  And you must seek to bring out the best in that person too. The only way you can do that is IF YOU ARE ABLE TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOURSELF. So start from there today, do something that will bring out only the best in and of you:

FIND GOD 

By looking for Him with ALL YOUR HEART, because He wants to be found by you.

STOP TELLING LIES 

When you find yourself telling lies, it’s because you are carrying the weight of your life on yourself, and can’t go any further, so you resign to keeping appearances. Remember you can live your life at the Expense of God today, and not yours. 

STOP BEING LAZY

You are not entitled to what belongs to me. I don’t have to give you a dime, after all my DIME is MINE, until my TIME is up. YOU MUST WORK. There is NO ALTERNATIVE TO WORK! It’s a Commandment from God to all of us. Stop begging, start working. Stop sleeping, THERE IS VALUE IN YOU! ADD IT TO MY LIFE, and I WILL PAY YOU FOR IT.

YOUR ANGER WILL HANG YOUR OPPORTUNITIES

You are Angry because you are hurting. Stop saying I am alright, I am alright when you are not. And stop telling me “Look at what you made me do to you”, when you can’t control yourself. My dear, you have lost control, humble yourself and get help, before your Anger hangs you. Even if your Father was like that, are you your father? Don’t be discouraged, Marriage is not a thing of Chance, Luck or Opportunity; IT IS THE WILL OF GOD, and that’s why your chances of getting married is very Real, and God is the FINALITY OF THE REALITY! GOD IS YOUR MATCHMAKER! He has done it for others. HE WILL DO IT FOR YOU!

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