There Is A Limit Called “ENOUGH” In Relationship And Marriage
By Jerome Yaovi Onipede
Have you ever been in a Relationship or Marriage where your Partner means the World to you, or better still, this Person is not just one in a million, but “ONE IN A LIFETIME”. To you, you have NEVER met someone like this before and you are so excited about this person that you are ready to do anything to make the Person comfortable. Every time you are with the Person, you believe EVERY GAP in your life is filled up. You fall in LOVE with this Person EVERY NEW DAY. You actually Love EVERYTHING that you are when you are with this Person, and for you this Person is IRREPLACEABLE!
However, there is a Big Problem! Time and time again you find out that YOU ARE JUST AN OPTION for this person, and that no matter how much time this Person spends with you, he or she goes back into the hands of others.
You also realize that this Person you love with your life, lies a lot to you, and that the most painful part is that everything you discovered that he or she does when you are not together, you FOUND OUT one way or the other without this person telling you about it, because he or she has got lies as the NATIVE LANGUAGE and so it’s so NATURAL for him or her to tell it, and so he or she does not lie, because of you, but lies because he or she is just a PATHOLOGICAL LIAR, and cannot deal with others without telling lies!
It’s just as simple as Proverbs 30:20 puts it: “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eats, and wipes her mouth, and says, I HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG”. Such a Person NEVER owns up, unless he or she is caught, and even when caught may use ANOTHER LIE to cover up the Previous lies, but the most painful part is “YOU KNOW HE OR SHE IS LYING!
Like all that is not painful enough, you now realise you are also being taken for granted. You have to be the one to call to find out what are his or her plans, otherwise you will not be told. And even when you are told, he or she won’t consider you enough to call you and tell you if plans have changed, and so you discover shockingly at your next call that he or she is not where they said they would be. As soon as you call, he or she says “eeeh hheee, I was just about to call you sef to tell you that….”. He or she is always about to call you when you called. You see, for such a Person, YOU DO NOT MATTER, because he or she is SELF-SERVING and VERY SELFISH.
When you tell such a Person you believe a CLEAN BREAK is needed between both of you, they will insist that you remain just friends, but when they want the Clean Break, they don’t even care about how you feel, but just ask for it. Remember as far as they are concerned, they are the most important person in the Relationship and NOT you.
The worst part is if you STAY LONGER WITH SUCH A PERSON than you should, he or she will start treating you like he or she is DOING YOU A FAVOR by being with you. But do you blame him or her? Haven’t you heard, have you not been told, don’t you know that THERE IS A LIMIT CALLED ENOUGH?
You can NEVER MEAN MUCH to this person. It has been said that “Don’t give your PEARLS to swines, because they will only TRAMPLE upon it”. AND IT IS TRUE!!!
This kind of person will never know your worth until you are gone!
So what do I do Jerome if I am in this kind of situation?
I know it can be the most painful thing you may ever do, but JUST DO IT! Such pain always leads to GAIN that will add Value to your life. Whatever is in your past can never be compared to the WONDER-FULL THINGS that comes with your Future. Wouldn’t you rather want to be with someone who values you, doesn’t lie to you, take you for granted or behaves like he or she is doing you a favour by being your friend? Wouldn’t you rather want to be with a Friend rather than someone that claims to be a friend, yet HURTS YOU EVERYDAY?
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