I NEED SOMEONE WHO WILL ACCEPT ME AS I AM
By Jerome Yaovi Onipede
As a Professional Matchmaker, Leadership/Relationship Guide, and Personal Counselor, I have met so many people that can do well in life if only they can take out time to really ask themselves if the life they are living right now is really the life they had planned to live.
The times are hard, the days are evil, and the value of living has fallen, as the quality of lives drops beyond comprehension.
Most of us believe we are still normal, when the abnormal has become the new standard of living, and it’s no surprise that evil that once operated in secret places has taken up the centre stage without restrictions whatsoever.
Anyone who revels in ungodliness, doesn’t do so alone anymore, but openly invites others to do so. And sadly, more and more people living under the delusions of the diabolical power of deceptions are asking for people who will just accept them the way they are. This is destroying Marriages, Families, Relationships, Business Partnerships, Societies, etc, just because people want change, but not the kind of change that starts with them.
We want change that starts with the other person, but not with us. When it comes to us, we just want someone who will accept us the way we are. We have become Selfish, Self-Centered, and Self-Serving. Life is just about us, and nobody else. That is not the Character of God. That is the Character of satan.
Please go through this CHECKLIST carefully, and over and over again and see if you have moved very far from the Person you have hoped to be, and if you think so, that’s God opening your eyes to see, that’s God having Mercy on you, because satan would rather keep us in bondage unto destruction.
I advice that while you go through this, and you cross examine yourself, don’t forget to ask yourself if anyone has said this about you lately. I am aware that sometimes people may say things about us that are not true, because they want to spite us, I advice we may just use what others say to consider our ways so we also don’t step out of line without knowing it.
WHICH ONE OF THIS IS TRUE ABOUT YOU?
- You love only yourself and money.
- You have become proud and boast about yourself.
- You abuse others with insults.
- You do not obey your Parents.
- You are ungrateful and against all that is pleasing to God. You no longer have the Fear of God!
- You no longer have love for others and refuse to forgive anyone.
- You now talk about others to hurt them and have no self-control.
- You have become cruel and hate what is good.
- You have no problem turning against your friends.
- You find yourself doing foolish things without thinking and feel so proud of yourself.
- Instead of loving God, you are given to love Sensual pleasure
- You go on pretending to be devoted to God, but you refuse to let that “devotion” change the way you live.
There are either of two ways to go after going through this Checklist. You may either feel a godly sorrow, and truly repent asking God to forgive you and help you, then seeking for further help from those that can keep you on track, or you don’t think much of this, and see nothing wrong in living like this.
If you go for the former, that’s wonderful as you are resolving that GODLY CHANGE MUST START WITH YOU!
But if you chose the later, the Word of God in 2nd Timothy 3:5 commands that we STAY AWAY FROM THESE PEOPLE! I can assure you that we are living in very difficult and evil days, and only the People that FEAR GOD will get through these times that has come upon us. May the Wisdom in God’s Word guide us all.
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