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I FOUND MY HUSBAND MASTURBATING

Written by jerome yaovi onipede. Posted in Get Captivated

Good afternoon, I read your articles, and would like to know what to do in case you are married and found out that your spouse is masturbating? Ngo baby.

 

If you catch your spouse masturbating when you are available to pleasure him, and yet he is not coming to you, there may be the possibility that your sexual life together is no longer anything to write home about, if it ever was at anytime. Or there may also be the possibility that he has had a lustful desire for pornography which you never discovered until now. Or maybe he is doing it for some other reason, but the most important thing you have to note is that his act of masturbation is just a symptom of an underlying problem, and a big problem for that matter too. Well like you said, he is your spouse, and I want to believe being your spouse, he is also your friend, and as friends, both of you may sit down and carefully discuss this with each other. He may open up to you areas of his life that he has kept away from you for some time, depending on the way you approach him if it’s not with a condemning attitude, and since he feels he has been caught, it may be the only reasonable thing left to do, which is talk to you about it. You may need to forgive him irrespective of what he says to you, and then encourage him to get help, because he may need help since such habits may be difficult to break away from just like that. I don’t mind helping out if he needs help. Get help on time too, because it may destroy your sexual life and other areas of your marriage. What is wrong with masturbation anyway? Well “it is simply sex by yourself of which you are the giver and the taker”, and it is not the plan for sex. Period!

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